B.O.B - Boundaries on Bullshit
As a man who lives in this world of chaos, triumph and disaster, that abounds with a cacophony of cataclysmic crap - you need to set boundaries on bullshit.
For example, I was in a coffee shop the other day and there was this big builder guy. Probably 6 foot 5, muscles the size of Arnie and there he was sitting across from his little girlfriend. She was cute.
But then, suddenly, she was telling him to go get her a fork and shouting at him that he's not going out tonight.
What happened to the male/female polarity there?
You need to eliminate bullshit, early.
There's bullshit all across your life and not just with women.
Your mate turns up late - bullshit.
You don't do something you say you are going to do - bullshit.
You can't sort your career out - bullshit.
You are offering no value to the world - bullshit.
You don't smile enough - bullshit.
You have no aims in life - bullshit.
You dress badly - bullshit.
You are unfit and overweight - bullshit.
You don't take risks - bullshit!!!!!!
Get the picture?
With women, they will test your boundaries of bullshit and what you take.
You have to be very careful and know where the line is with women.
The frame is that YOU DON'T GET REACTIVE, be calm, stay chilled, firm but fair. EVERYTHING IS PLAYFUL.
Think of bullshit as unacceptable game of fun. It's not World War 3 - chill the fuck out.
So here at the start:
She says she 'give your number' or 'give me your business card':
"Hey, I always play fair. Let's swap though." "Let's do email."
She hasn't replied to your first text for two days:
Call her out.
If she says she's busy.
"You have to speak to my secretary, this is unacceptable."
Being late on date...
Never stand there by the tube. Go sit somewhere and tell her where you are.
You need to start implementing B.O.B (Boundaries on Bullshit) across ALL areas of your life in order to create a more fully rounded you. Without them you are just going to be covered in all amounts of bullshit and you won't be able to create a you that is you.
Clean up your life. People will respect you for it.
Always make it fun though, we don't want any angry anti-bullshitters out there please. Thank you.
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