The way you think about yourself, the way you conduct your life is ABSOLUTELY CRITICAL in success with women.
The thing women are most attracted to is a guy with an extremely strong sense of self. A man who is passionate about what he does and lives each moment for him and nobody else.
Women are extremely intuitive and you can't fake this shit. You need to really work on who you are and where you are going. You need to focus on improving every single day.
These articles should help you do that.