Redefining roMANce

You think that women love romance. Most women do. What they won't tell you is that don't need to romance to have sex.

Women will often interpret you think are not romantic as romantic, just because you were a MAN.

On a podcast we did with a young Ukranian girl she said that one of the most romantic things that her current boyfriend did was order her around.

When she was hungry on their first date.

He simply said, "Let's go get chocolate over there."

She interpreted this as a romantic gesture because he lead like a man, he didn't ask: "Well, what would you like to eat?"

He simply directed her and that is what women like.

In your head you probably think the Disney romance is what women want. Sometimes this is true, but wait till you are 6 months or 1 year into the relationship before you run to the candles and flowers shop.

The new version of romance is to be roMANtic. That is to use your masculine qualities and let them shine through.

Redefine what you think romance is in your mind (a very feminine, almost full homosexual, child like thing) - then rape that image in your mind until it dies.

That image of romance is now dead in your head.

Leave it there.

RIP. Romance.

Viva roMANce.

Celebrate being a man and leading a women forward in the direction you want to take her.

Here are some examples of being roMANtic:

* Opening a door for her.
* Telling her what you’ll be doing and leading situations.
* Kissing her before she kisses you. Not asking.
* Keeping ultra strong eye contact. Losing track of conversation because you are too busy looking deep into her eyes.
* Smiling.
* When the time is right, picking her up and throwing her on your bed.
* Keep moving the interaction forward physically and persisting for sex in a playful way, not a needy way.
* Listening to her.
* Planting seeds in terms of future things you might do together (remember not to do this too early on).
* Fucking her like a man. Being dominant (doesn’t mean rape).

You need to kill what you think is romance in your head and start replacing it with what the real truth is.

Candles, flowers and dinner do not work. Perhaps in the 1930s it did but not anymore.

Now you need to think...Coffee, cocktail...cock.