Speed Dating. Meet Girls Speed Dating
Speed dating is an American phenomenon that is growing and growing in popularity, especially in cities where people are often very busy and don't get the chance to meet as new people as they like.
There is often doubt from guys that it means they are desperate or it's a last option to go to speed dating.
Not at all is the case.
Being single doesn't mean you are any better or worse than anyone else. Being single is empowering and gives you freedom to get to know yourself and more about the world.
Speed dating is a great chance to meet girls who are obviously single and looking to meet a cool guy like you.
It's always a fun evening and even if you don't meet anyone you like, you'll come away with the experience of interacting with more women.
Speed dating is a great compliment to your dating mix.
We wouldn't recommend choosing one way of meeting women, choose at least two. Remember you have:
- Online dating
- Meet women during the day
- Meet women at night
- Social circle
It's very, very dangerous to choose one discipline.
It's like if you went to school from the age of 5 and only chose maths to do. You'd be pretty screwed right?
Besides it being dangerous for your dating life, it's also more fun to vary how you meet women.
Speed dating gives you that extra option that if you have a free night during the week, you can go and immediately meet 20 new women.
Don't go with false expectations...
- Expect that you might only like 1 or 2 of them. This is just the law of averages.
- Not everyone is looking for a serious relationship. Some girls just go for fun.
Some top tips for speed dating:
- Dress well.
- Brush your teeth.
- Open the conversation with a nice smile and finish the same. You don't have to smile like a Cheshire cat all the way through the 4 or 5 minutes you have together.
- Be playful
- Use good eye contact
- Don't ask stock questions, guess things about them
- Be nice to everyone, even if you don't fancy them straight away
- Use every interaction to try and seem attractive to the other person. Show your attractive side to everyone and it will become natural to everyone you meet
Once you have matched with someone, you'll most likely get sent their persons email or phone number sent to you.
This is where you need to use some text game or the elongated version - email to make sure you get the girl out on a date.
It's not a foregone conclusion that just because you matched with a girl she is going to go on a date with you.
You have to now be playful and careful with what texts you send her to make sure you set up a date.
Speeddating is fun - do a Google search to find speed dating places near you..