How to have a threesome

Three-in-the-bed a far-flung fantasy or a possible reality? The good news is that it's not as hard to achieve as you think, but the bad news is that you're going to have to see if it's possible with quite a few girls as the technicalities are not that intuitive.

There are different ways of setting up a girl-girl-guy threesome. The hardest would be to cold approach two girls (day or night) and bounce them back to your place for sex. Much easier is to meet and sleep with the two girls separately, find out about their bi tendencies or fantasies, and then bring everyone together.

After I've slept with a girl I'll ask her about her sexual experiences.....craziest place, fantasies, experiences with girls. If she says that she's done it before, or would like to try it, I plant the seed that we'll find another girl to have fun with.

Repeat the above with other girls, until you find a match. A bit like a pairs card game.

Invite both girls out to a pub/bar, telling each one you're "bringing a friend who she'll like." Have a few beers, pay equal attention to both, and get them to verbalise what they find attractive in each other. The vibe should be very giggly and fun, nothing heavy or planned.

Back to yours for the usual - dvd, cooking, shisha, whatever. When you're on the bed, make out with one, and then the other, and then finally get the girls to make out with each other. Getting them both to give you a massage is the final trigger to it happening.

Now I'm not saying that this is a guaranteed fool-proof method, but it's your best chance of  making it happen. If the girls don't click, or you force the situation, then you have to accept that you can lose them both as it's quite an emotional roller-coaster for them. 

Or you and one bi-curious girl can hit the gay/lesbian bars looking for a playmate if your night game is good. The girl should be the one doing the flirting while you chill and play wing man.

If you and a male friend are happy sleeping with the same girl together (note - it requires seeing more of your mate's body than is healthy!) then a guy-guy-girl threesome is much easier to do. When you're sleeping with a girl, ask her if she's ever tried two guys. If she says that it's one of her fantasies (...a very common one for lots of girls) then just smile and say it would be fun to try. On a different date, bring your buddy along (who needs some basic game) and both of you flirt in the pub with her. Then it's simply a case of all going back to yours for the dvd or shisha and him kissing her as well as you.

This all sounds like a Rolling Stones dressing room story, but it's easier than you think. If you're sleeping with lots of girls already and are not in a relationship, then it's fun to try and combine them. As Sesame Street said, three IS the magic number.

Written by Tom Torero.